You may have never thought about the mourning of your own death. Take the opportunity to consider how you'd like for your loved ones to mourn your death by responding to the following prompts:
Assume you are married, if you are not. How long should your spouse wait before dating again?
Or before marrying again? Why? How long should your loved ones wait before they go to the movies or otherwise have fun? Why? Should your mourners wear black? And for how long?
Why or why not? How often should your loved ones visit your gravesite, ashes, or memorial marker? Why? How long would you like your photos to be displayed in your loved ones' homes? Why? Any other requests or guidelines? If so, explain.